Why doesn't my perpetrator leave me alone?

Afraid of stalking - my ex won't leave me alone


I broke up with my ex in December 2015 after 5 years with lots of ups and downs. We had no children yet but lived together. Since the breakup, my nightmare has started. He just doesn't understand that I don't want any more contact with him. We just had too much disagreement and he wasn't the man I wanted to grow old with. I would have broken with this relationship.

I moved out immediately after the breakup and I also told him that he should leave me alone, but he doesn't give up. I'm so nervous and scared of meeting him. Unfortunately, because of my work, moving to another city is not an option.

He's been to my new apartment three times and colleagues have also seen him at my place of work. He throws me letters, sends me e-mails and short messages. I've blocked him everywhere but he eats his way deeper and deeper. His messages are getting crazier. He knows that I don't want to, but he believes that if he just shows me his love, it would do something for me, but that doesn't change anything.

I don't want to go to the police yet, but I can hardly find peace anymore. I'm always afraid that he'll call again or seek contact in some way. Why can't he stop? What would you do?

I'm at the end of my nerves

20.02.2017 13:40 • #1