Why do I want to cheat

7 reasons a man would NEVER cheat on the woman he really loves

Not only have millions of men around the world never cheated on their wives. Millions of men have generally never cheated on one of their partners in their entire lives. And that's not because these men are the unicorns among men, but simply because they made the decision to be faithful.

Yes, many men cheat because they are missing something in the relationship. But they could also have simply communicated clearly to their partners what they were missing and could work on the relationship or draw a line. But instead they made a conscious decision to cheat. So it is time we finally stopped blaming women for affairs.

After an affair, it is suddenly said that the woman did not pay enough attention to her partner, would have bored him in bed, would not have listened to him - whatever - that is all nonsense. And the proof of that is all the men who have never cheated, even when the relationship was in crisis - and that happens even in the best of relationships.

So I say very clearly: a real man would never cheat on the woman he loves (and the same applies the other way around, of course!). Here are my reasons for it - and they have absolutely nothing to do with the partner or the other woman.

A real man talks about his feelings

When there are problems in the relationship, it is often the women who bring up the problem. By complaining, getting angry or sad - in any case, women make themselves noticeable when something goes against the grain. Immature men don't do that and prefer to eat their frustration in. At least until they can no longer and everything breaks out of them. Then the resentment takes over and they begin to reduce their frustration in other ways. Be it suddenly partying like there's no tomorrow, or in the arms of another woman. This would not happen to a man who spoke openly about his problems.

A real man respects women

Cheaters not only abuse the trust of their partners. They also lie and hide their affair - all acts that show that these men do not respect their partner as friends and confidants. In addition, affairs show that he does not respect the other woman either, as she is only used to satisfy any of the cheater's selfish needs. A decent guy treats everyone with respect and does not need to lie or cheat.

A real man respects himself

Even if he knew for sure that no one would ever find out, a real man wouldn't cheat on his wife. He has promised his loyalty and he keeps his word.

In addition, a real man values ​​his good reputation and knows that sooner or later affairs will come to light after all, because we humans all have a conscience. He knows that those around him would see him differently after they learned that he was cheating on his wife. If a man has no inhibitions about cheating and hurting the person he supposedly loves, why should he treat people well for whom he feels less or nothing?

A real man doesn't have to sleep with many women to prove something

Some men see women as trophies to collect. They consider it an achievement to sleep with as many women as possible. A real man doesn't need that. He doesn't have to get his approval from women and sleep with many to feel like a man. He's so sure of his manhood too.

A real man would never consciously hurt the woman he loves

In general, a real man would never consciously hurt a woman or any other person. But this is especially true for the woman at his side. Once a man has found the woman he can no longer imagine his life without, he would do anything to make her happy. He wouldn't risk losing this woman for a few fleeting moments with someone else.

A real man knows what he wants

A real man knows what makes him really happy and remembers it when he gets into a situation where he finds another woman attractive. And these situations very rarely happen because he is too busy pursuing his goals. He has to develop his career, be there for his family and put a smile on the face of the woman of his life. That makes him really happy and he knows for sure that in the end there is nothing more important.

A real man has the courage to end the wrong relationship

When a real man is tempted to cheat on his partner, he realizes that the relationship probably no longer makes sense or that something is going terribly wrong and acts accordingly. Even if that means he has to end the relationship. He's not interested in a casual relationship, nor is he afraid of being alone.

The act of cheating is not an accident. It's not something we accidentally stumble into and then it's suddenly too late. You get to know each other, you show your interest and only then do you cross the threshold into an affair - so plenty of time to put an end to it all - and a real man will do just that.

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